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HuffPost Religion Article: Jesus, Healing and Grace-Filled Gray Areas

29 Thursday Aug 2013

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HuffPost Religion Article: Jesus, Healing and Grace-Filled Gray Areas

Here’s my latest article on the Huffington Post Religion Page

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Thank You Notes

22 Thursday Aug 2013

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Confession: I’m not the greatest at sending thank you notes.

Granted, I will call, Facebook or email my sentiments of gratitude to the person. But hand-written notes are not my strength.

I believe it may have something to do with overanalyzing what I should or shouldn’t be saying to the person. Does this note encompass the full gratitude and compassion I have towards that person? In my deliberation, I end up holding on to the note or sentiments without releasing it to the person for whom I am grateful.

So, this week, I’ve decided to make hand-written notes, mostly thank you cards, a priority in my spiritual life. In the time I write the note, my love and energy pours into the paper which will be received by those for whom I am grateful. I will stop obsessing over all of the thank you notes I’ve neglected to send in the past and just thank the person for more recent actions and gifts. This means I am required to accept grace for what I haven’t completed in the past and live life as fully as I can now.

To all of you reading this, thank you for spending your time reading my blog. I am grateful for the energy you have spent here.

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A Meal with the Past

18 Sunday Aug 2013

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Who knew a Cheerios commercial could stir something within me and theologically warm in my heart…

The commercial features young boy asking his mom if Nana poured Cheerios for her when she was young.  Her mom used to eat Cheerios with her

Maybe communion hasn’t quite been exactly the same for two thousand years like Cheerios has been the same since it was invented.  There have been lots of rules added and removed.  The quality of bread is different from denomination to denomination.  Some of us walk to the front to receive our elements and others pass the elements from person to person while sitting in the pews.  But one element remains the same – we come to the table to partake in a meal in remembrance of Jesus, and in doing so communion “has pretty much been the same forever.”

And then the little boy asks his mom: “So when we have Cheerios, it’s kind of like we’re having breakfast with Nana.”  (Anyone else besides me get a little choked up at this point of the commercial?)

As this past Sunday’s Hebrews 12 lectionary text says, “we are surrounded by so a great cloud of witnesses,” communion reminds us of our connection to the generations of yesterday.  In our time at the table, we recall what Jesus said: that in the sharing of this meal, we remember him.  And as we remember him, we also remember all those who shared the same meal – our parents, grandparents and so forth.

When I go to the communion table, I share the meal with Jesus the Christ, with great theologians with whom I agree and disagree and with friends and enemies.  I share the table with the rich and the poor, the criminal and the innocent.  And I also share the communion table with my Grandad Lawrence, my Grandma Queenie, my Medshireke Fred and my Memama Margaret.  I share the table with their parents and countless generations who have gone before them.  I share the table with my Mom and Dad – whether they are in my church that day or not.  I share the table with people who have not yet been born for ten, twenty or one hundred years.

It’s pretty amazing when we realize that each time we go to the communion table, it’s “kind of like having breakfast with Nana” and people from every time and age.

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Sermon: Living in the Scarcity Mindset

06 Tuesday Aug 2013

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This sermon was delivered on August 4, 2013 at St. Paul United Church of Christ, Old Blue Rock Road, Cincinnati.

A study was reported this week that 30 percent of mothers have struggled to purchase diapers for their children.  That’s one-third of the mothers in our country.  Instead, she will sometimes reuse a diaper, causing health and developmental issues for the child and extra stresses upon herself. If a woman makes minimum wage, she’s spending six percent of her pay on diapers alone.

Some may suggest cloth diapers.  But many of these women don’t have washers and driers in their household.  Many have to travel to laundromats to wash their clothes.  Travel is time-consuming and costly.

If this mom is on minimum wage, she would need to work about 87-88 hours per week in order to live.  Many people who work hard on minimum wage still need government assistance.

We all hope in the American dream – that ambitious people will climb from poverty to money.  Unfortunately, this is becoming more rare.  Through personal experience, I see how people with money socialize very little with people in poverty.  Imagine a black tie event, or a golf fundraiser.  Each entry is $1000 dollars.  At this event, wealthy people network with other wealthy people giving them more opportunities to make more money, leaving middle class folks like most of us or people in poverty to rarely associate with people of power.

Sure, some believe that people need the incentive to make more money, something that will drive them to be ambitious.  I believe that seeing a CEO making ten times as much money would make people be more ambitious.  Twenty five times as much money would drive people.  Do CEOs need to make a full 273 times the amount of the average worker?  In the booming 60’s, the average CEO made 20 times that of the average worker.  Twenty times seems relatively fair – enough that would drive people to work for more.  But before the recession hit, the ratio for CEO to average worker pay was over 350 times to one.  The person at the top of the pyramid was so heavy with wealth that the rest of the pyramid crashed.

And no matter how much someone makes, whether it’s the CEO or the entry level employee, there is never enough money in each of our lives.  Rich people are afraid they won’t have enough with billions of dollars, just like those in poverty also don’t feel like they have enough, except that the person in poverty struggles each day to keep their head above water.

This isn’t to discourage the average worker from negotiating more from his or her workplace.  Everyone deserves to be paid fairly.  But at what point does the plentitude need to begin to drip a little more from the people in the top tier of workplaces and society to those at the bottom of the pay rungs?  When are they holding back their extreme abundance when the rest of our society struggles?

Jesus knew how to tell a good story to help the rest of us humans see the world in a very different light.  A good portion of what Jesus spoke about in many of his sayings and parables happen to be about loving our neighbor and taking care of the poor.

Extravagant profit seems to be the bottom line when it comes to the rich man in the parable.  Not only does he have enough, he uses his resources to pay for barns to be torn down and new ones to be built just so he can continue to hoard.  This is more than he could ever to expect to use himself, and affluence actually leads him to being lazier in his life.  Remember the saying “the one who dies with the most toys win?”  Well, the man in the parable believed this, except that God calls him out on being a fool.   For God, being rich means extravagantly loving God and loving one’s neighbor.

The lectionary text stops at verse 21 after the parable, but I thought the context of the larger chapter is important to this story and expanded today’s reading.  Jesus then tells his disciples “Do not worry about your life.”  He’s telling them to drop this fear of scarcity of material goods.  There are so many other issues on which to spend our energy.

But maybe we worry because we know we’re living under a system that not everyone is treated fairly and a serious lack of balance.  Maybe we act out of fear that we’ll be living in poverty at some point as well.

Of course, there are many CEOs, business owners, corporations and small businesses with much integrity – who are trying to use their wealth and power to build our societies and humanity.  Unfortunately, we hear much more about corporate greed which is still a huge part of our picture.  In his book The Powers that Be, theologian Walter Wink writes the following:

“According to eighteenth century philosopher of capitalism Adam Smith, businesses exist to serve the general welfare.  Profit is the means, not the end.  It is the reward a business receives for serving the general welfare.  When a business fails to serve the general welfare, Smith insisted, it forfeits its rights to exist.  It is part of the church’s task to remind corporations and businesses that profit is not the ‘bottom line,’ that as creatures of God they have as their divine vocation the achievement of human well-being (Eph 3:10).  They do not exist for themselves.  They were bought with a price (Col. 1:20).  They belong to the God who ordains sufficiency for all.”

Taking care of those in all parts of our society is part of our job as people of God and has been part of humanity’s call since the Old Testament.  Jeremiah 29:7 says “seek the welfare of the city where I have sent you into exile, and pray to the Lord on its behalf, for in its welfare you will find your welfare.”  When we can keep in mind the success of the whole and of the many, not just the few, our foundation is stronger, and our communities can succeed greater.

For the record, I don’t have a problem with capitalism as long as everyone has a chance to succeed.  But even the best systems, theories and programs have faults.  Like Walter Wink says, “the Powers are good, the Powers are fallen, the Powers need to be redeemed.”  Our system of economics is sorely missing something right now, especially because people who work still need government assistance.  There is seriously something out of balance.  And as a follower of Jesus the Christ and as someone called to be both pastoral and prophetic, I would be failing my call if I didn’t preach on ways to make sure “the least of these” are taken care of.

Like the goods in the barns from today’s parable, the plenitude is not flowing from the rich.  When 30 percent of mothers can’t afford diapers, and people working for minimum wage need to work over 80 hours of week to live when people are making 270 times that amount, it is a conversation that we, as Christians, need to have.  And I know that there are a wide range of perspectives on this issue in this congregation.  Where do we start the conversation?  Where do we start reflecting?

Many of us live in this mindset of scarcity.  This mentality makes us stay silent and frightened.  And today’s text is telling us to go against this nature of worry-only-about-our-selves, to step outside of the scarcity mindset.

When we make decisions about our lives, do we listen for God or do we look at the amount in our bank accounts?  Do we hold back in fear of scarcity or do we spring forward in love and abundance?

Let’s move it another step further – What is God calling us to do as a congregation?  Are we using the earplugs of fear to mute the call of God?  Do we follow God’s call with trust that God will provide time, talent and treasure?

Where do we have abundance?  Maybe we don’t have a large congregation, but God has blessed us with a building.  How is God calling us to use this building to build God’s kingdom?

Too often, we support systems that promote the rich man in Jesus’ parable.  Have we let companies with unfair labor practices know that they are hurting the entire of humanity?  Do we let our pocketbooks decide who has the better labor practice – by spending our money at local businesses that take care of their employees?  If we don’t use our voices, are we are no better off than the rich man in Jesus’ parable?

As we go forward wondering what God’s visions for our world, our community and our church are, we must be willing to stand in faith.  We must be willing to risk, to allow our treasures to be used to grow, to allow our building to be used for the good of our community.  We must be willing to stand against systems where hard working people can’t afford diapers, toiletries, shelter and food.  For when we advocate for the well-being of all, we will find our well-being.

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It Doesn’t Matter What You Wear…

05 Monday Aug 2013

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I just read an article on People Magazine’s website that Britney Spears wore thigh high boots and a tight dress as she went to church on Sunday morning.  Her hair wasn’t perfectly pulled-back into a ponytail, and so the article described her style as “messy.”

Could this be another reason why Millenials shy away from church?

Now, the article never notes that the church was judgmental that Spears was wearing this outfit.  But through the media, a stereotype was reinforced: the Sunday church outfit.

Why can’t people wear tight dresses and thigh-high boots to worship?  Or shorts and tank tops?  Do we want the person to come to God the way God has made her or him?  Shouldn’t authentic expression be a part of the way we connect with God?

I wonder if we could get more people into church if we encouraged them to dress the same way they would to go to the movies, the grocery store or the club?

Haven’t we figured out that next generations are more laid-back in their approach to etiquette?  Instead of calling a pastor Reverend Smith like they would in the mid 20th century, we now call her Pastor Jane.  Instead of calling one’s mom Mrs. Smith, we call her Miss Jane.  Instead of wearing a suit and tie to church or work, more people are wearing khakis or jeans.  We TTYL and BRB instead of talking to you later and being right back.  Why does alternative expression have to be a bad thing – whether it’s within the church or in the communities?  Expression has been evolving for centuries, and God’s been in each of those style evolutions.

As churches, we should be evolving as the world evolves and encouraging each person to come as they are instead of covering them in shame.  Otherwise, God and the rest of the world will be leaving churches far, far behind.

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