Adapted from original posting on here 12/30/10. Inspired by Grey’s Anatomy, season 3, episode 12
Hoping is a communal action.
Dr. Preston Burke says it best in a season 3 episode of Grey’s Anatomy. George O’Malley’s father was diagnosed with advanced cancer. We no longer see “George the doctor” but “George the patient’s son.”
As his father’s body experiences organ failure, George turns to Burke, the cardio surgeon, to discuss father’s health. Preston alludes that George’s father probably won’t be coming back from this. Preston tells George that what he can do is “hope with you.”
Hoping with… what a unique way to show solidarity with those in pain and those grieving. Usually, hope is something that I will do for me and you will do for you. Hoping seems like a very private and internal journey. But what if the journey of hope is intended to be something we do with others? When our hope seems dwindling, what if someone comes along side of us and keeps the hope going?
Hoping with someone has its risks. Maybe it means that we risk our emotions in hoping. We sit in the depths of the ditch with our neighbor, and our heart is with them in that ditch. As their hope becomes our hope, we, too, risk having hope pass us by.
If we identify with the Christian faith, we are undoubtedly in the hope business. We are in the tomb with Christ, hoping for resurrection. We are with the women at the tomb, hoping for a better day.
Hope isn’t just for Easter. At Christmas, hope comes as we wait for the birth of someone who embodied God’s love. Hope comes as we know night will not last forever, and longer days are ahead.
For what are you hoping? How can I hope with you?